When I hold my girl, hug her, kiss her, undress her, play with her,
sleep with her….none of that has to with promoting a movement. It’s just her
and I enjoying intimacy. And if what we do together rubs off on others….I can
hope it’s good for them. But …we aren’t responsible for their outcome. Nor are
we trying to send a message. Our activity with each other is about us. It’s not
about opening others up unless we are focused on doing that. And most of the time
we aren’t focused like that. And we are ok with that.