- Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC), Seattle 1999 to 2015
- Demo Top, Sensation City, Seduction Halloween Party, Foundation for Sex Positive Culture, Seattle 2014
- Demo Top, Sensation City, Seattle Erotic Art Festival, Foundation for Sex Positive Culture, Seattle 2014
- Demo Top, Try It You'll Like It, for two and a half years, a tasting event of all sorts of bdsm play, held by and at Center for Sex Positive Culture, Seattle, WA
- Paradise, week long bdsm event at The Longhouse, Redmond, WA, put on Center of Sex Positive Culture
- Ran private play parties in my five-bdrm house in Bellevue, WA
- Kinkfest events and classes, Portland, OR
- Play parties in WA, Idaho, Oregon, Vancouver - BC Canada, North Carolina and Colorado
- Triskeli Guild house parties, Whatcom County, WA
- National Leather Association Living in Leather III 1998, Seattle
- National Leather Association Living in Leather V 1990, Portland, OR, including the ORGASM play party (ORegon Gay Activist SM)
- National Leather Association May Day classes and play parties, including play party at the original Vertical Club (climbing club) location off Elliott Ave, Seattle
- National Leather Association May Day event, Masonic Temple, 1992, Seattle
- National Leather Association Living in Leather XI 1996, Portland, OR
- National Leather Association Living in Leather XV 2000, SeaTac, WA
- National Leather Association Mr & Mrs. Leather event, Seattle and in Portland, OR
- Spokane Power Exchange, board member, Spokane, WA
- SPARC, bdsm member organization setup similar to CSPC in Seattle, I helped put this together, Pasco, WA servicing the Tri-Cities area.
- Five River Energy Exchange, Tri-Cities, WA
- Hoedown play venue, Richland, WA
- La Fortress, play parties event venue, NC
- Vanishing Point Art Gallery play parties, Other Side, Vancouver BC Canada
- The Green Barn, play parties, Other Side, Vancouver BC Canada
- Purgatory, play venue, Other Side, Vancouver BC Canada
- Mack McKinnion events, NLA-BC, Vancouver BC Canada
- Metro Vancouver Kink play events, Capri Hall, Vancouver BC Canada
- Braven Manor, Lord Braven home parties, Burnaby BC Canada
- Denver Sanctuary play parties, Colorado
- Bunches of munches in bunches of cities
- SSMUT: Seattle's Sado-Masochism Unabashed Talk, Seattle
- Seattle Kink Information Network (SKIN), bdsm classes, Learning Center, Seattle
- Table of Ruthless Conversation (TORC), in-depth discussion group, held in the basement of Beyond the Edge Cafe, Captiol Hill in Seattle
- Beyond the Edge Cafe, play parties in the basement and eats at street level, 1995-1999, Seattle
- Kline Mansion play party, Capitol Hill in Seattle
- C-Space, 1989-1995, classes, also taught a 2-day class on M/s Lifestyle Dynamics, Seattle
- Fetish BDSM Bars in Seattle: The Vogue, and also at The Catwalk, both in Seattle
- Taught M/s Dynamics class at CSPC, Seattle
- Taught Mindgames class in Tri-Cities WA
- Taught Flogging Techniques class at Metro Vancouver Kink, Capri Hall, Vancouver BC Canada
- Kinky Couples weekend events at New Horizon Manor, Lynnwood, WA
- Rose n' Thorn Society, Maledom/female-slave club, Lake Forest Park, WA
- The Chateau, an organization that provided experiences with dominants, San Francisco, CA
- The Catacombs, a very private membership only club, San Francisco, CA
- Over 5 years in the 70's bottoming to female dominatrixes, SF Bay Area, CA to learn the ropes of play and insertion of the mindset
My thoughts about BDSM, kink communities, Master and female slave lifestyle play and relationships. Have your act together, be responsible, be self-secure. Been playing since the '70s in CA, WA, OR, CO, VA, NC, and BC-Canada. The blog includes the official 128 Rules for the female slave. I'm currently Master_Flog on Fetlife (formerly LionMaster, known as JK, and use the pseudo-name "Johnathan Kay" as the author for the "128 Rules for the female slave"). Email: 128rules@gmail.com
Feb 18, 2018
My Long History in Kink
The running list....after all, since I am the author of this blog I thought I should lay down my history in kink. Since 2015 I continue to also play privately and attend private parties. So here's the history so far: