When you are ready to go to bed....you tell your girl to go and get ready first.....and tell her to be naked and kneeling at the foot of the bed such that she, if allowed, will be looking at the headboard end of the bed....tell her that when kneeling there to have her hands behind her back.
Now then....when you come to the bedroom to go to bed - get in, get comfortable. And then tell her to crawl up to you without looking at you directly. And then tell her exactly where you want her by you. Watch her as she crawls of the bed and crawls to you. Is she doing it the way you like her doing it? Do you have a chore for her to do....perhaps oral on you? She's there for you, for bedtime. Make her like a hungry woman seeking prey.....and take her when you want her sleeping at your side. Or....finish with her and tell her to sleep on the floor next to you. It's your choice. She's yours.
